Asking clear, provocative, penetrating questions is one of the smartest and most effective strategies for getting ahead in life. It is also one of the most underutilized.
Ask and you shall receive is a fundamental truth and success principle you can use to leverage your time, talent, money and other resources. Asking boldly and directly for what you want is the best way to get what you want out of life or a situation.
The world is full of genies waiting to grant your wishes. The genies are all around you but in order to make their magic work they first have to know exactly what you want. Secondly, you have to step forward and confidently ask for it.
1) Ask yourself questions such as: What do I want out of life that I am not asking for right now, What is needed to get what I want? Who can help me to get what I need? What are the obstacles or constraints I need to overcome? What path of action should I take to overcome these obstacles? What are the best and worst things that could happen by asking? What is most likely to happen and what am I waiting for?
2) Ask for help: Asking for help allows you to accomplish your aims, achieve your goals and to get what you want out of life. Always remember to also help those that ask you for help. Be kind and generous to others.
- If you need help with the housework ask nicely.
- If you need more training to improve your job performance ask for it.
- If you are lost and need to ask for directions do it.
- If you are late and need to renegotiate payments ask for it. (This is especially important when late with the IRD)
- If you need to increase revenues confidently ask for the business.
- If you need feedback in order to improve your service – ask your customers directly.
Good things come to those who ask.
Asking for what you want doesn’t mean you will get everything you ask for. But it does mean you will get MORE out of life. Imagine the tragedy of the many things that are lost simply because we are not asking for them.

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